No. 30411 - Rebecca Lynn C. v. Michael Joseph B.
Starcher, Justice, dissenting:
The majority has unfortunately, in the exercise of this zeal, created precedent for dads to pay off moms with a lump sum, and thereby avoid forever the long-term responsibilities of fatherhood. (Or, less likely, moms paying off dads to avoid long-term maternal responsibilities.)
This sort of buying your way out of parental obligations is contrary to every known principle in our family law.
My reaction upon reading the majority opinion is that it overemphasizes the term parental rights.
As a parent of three (and grandparent of four), I expect that my piece of experience is a reasonable piece from which to speak. Speaking personally, then: I have found parenthood to be ninety-nine percent about responsibilities and relationships, and very little about rights, as that term is generally understood.
In my view (and I think that the law cited in the dissent by Justice Albright supports this view), nothing that a court can or should do can ever entirely sever the parent- child relationship. For example, everyone would agree that a biological parent might be compelled to give a DNA sample to help save their child's life -- even if the child had been adopted and a court had ratified the termination of child support obligations.
To emphasize parental rights as the quid pro quo for parental obligations is to unavoidably -- even if not intentionally _ foster the view of children as property, or chattels. As in: I have ownership rights in this property, therefore I have the duty to pay taxes or mow the lawn.
But children are not property.
Moreover, even in the world of property, rights and responsibilities are hardly an either-or situation. For example, if I sell a piece of real estate, I probably have few if any rights to ordain thereafter how the property is used. But in many circumstances, I can still be held responsible, if I used the property to create an environmental hazard.
My point is that ordinary parental legal obligations and responsibilities, like financial support -- and ordinary parental authorities or jurisdiction, like deciding where a child goes to school, or selecting a child's doctor _ are best seen as a continuum or a gestalt. So seen, a biological parent does not either have or not have parental rights. It's simply not a black or white, either-or type of relationship.
The use in the dissenting opinion by Justice Albright of the more nuanced and inclusive term relationship is appropriate. This term faciltates recognition of the multifaceted and diverse legal, cultural, religious, and emotional duties, statuses, obligations, and opportunities that are inherent in the parent-child relationship.
I would hold that the family law judge in the instant case should have the authority to conduct a reasonable inquiry into the economic means of this child's biological parent. If those means would permit him to help pay the child's substantial medical bills, I would allow the court to consider requiring such a contribution. (See footnote 2)
I am authorized to state that Justice Albright joins in this separate opinion.